One thing I have learned from parenting is, it's not about what others think you should do...it's what God is calling you to do. No one has the same child. You have to listen to your heart and do what's best for each child. Forget all these rules and yada yada. It's not about you, it's about their individual needs.May God grant me the knowledge to be the mother I need to be for Brody and the wisdom to know whats right for him! Not others opinions, but yours. For you Lord created him and you know his needs!